In life we
sometimes meet few people who though meet you by chance and yet left indelible
impact on your life journey and have positive impact on your thought process. I
consider myself one of the fortunate man who has been provided such an opportunity
to meet several such personalities. One such personality is our teacher Upendra sir , away from coaching “mandi” of Rajendra nagar who make students love sociology. I have
used word love rather than teaching, because this is what seems a fit and
anybody whom I met has same thing to say, if he ever met Sir . Though, I must
confess that I wasn’t lucky enough to attend his lectures due to my official
duties but yes, due to his kind gestures, I had few interactions with him in
the course of preparation for mains 2011 and following discussions on tests. When
I first met him, my voice was almost blocked and I thought of him as some
colonel of NDA. So followed the
discussion which started by lambasting aspirants who wrote previous tests and
then followed his presentation of answer which was so perfect that I was reading it again and again and
forgot what he had to say on another question. Then followed his advisory for
sociology answers writing which is equally true for all humanities optional and
even general studies.
What turned
to be most important was most feared by examinees ie answer checking which was
best part as copies were evaluated in your presence which was both healing and killing as I was listening it
from my later turned friends Ali Abbas,Bharat Bhaviskar,Khusboo and Umesh who were my companions on road to UIAS. After some wait, came turn of my copy and when my eager ears were waiting to
listen some praise, (as I’ve written some seemingly good answers, which later
turned out to be my subjective perception) ,after my previous companions who
now were down-to-earth after “advisories ” of sir. He gave a look on
answers and said “not up-to the mark”
and nodded his head, giving negative
signs, then he gave some suggestions on
how to improve which proved beneficial as even after my silly mistakes in mains
in which in my zeal I over-wrote and thus failed to attempt 36 marks questions
and yet got 176/300.
There is an
interesting incident to narrate, on constant listening of Upendra-“gatha” between me and Ali , my friend Anjaneesh
decided to take sociology as an optional and after several deliberations we
decided to call sir, and so as instructed reached before time to meet him. When
he met, he asked what is “agenda ” for
the day, at the same time there was some frequency gap between us and I thought
Anjaneesh will speak and he thought that I will respond, creating a lull, which
we recovered and after brief introduction, we were again eating sandwiches in adjacent bakery with a book of David
Mandelbaum.
If I am
within the list it is only due to sir as after clearing mains’11, I approached
him again for mock sessions away from popular “shrines” in Delhi which we can we see in the newspapers of that reference
period, we find that somebody is conducting it free of cost, some on nominal
cost, some boast of “eminent” panels while few non-sense even go to the extent saying
that they have predicted questions for
interview. So on due date and before time , I was in front of sir and what
followed was only further replicated in Dholpur house. My experience of mocks
in 2011 in V&R was utter distasteful and I could get only 129 in 2011. But as is
personality test, so it also depends on your personal factors, boards attitude
, so am not blaming anyone for that fiasco.
But yes, credit for this years improvement definitely goes to Sir.
Though am not sort of Eklavya as such but yes his notes ,guidance, tests and
suggestions have helped me a lot in this journey along with my other friends. And I must
extend my regards to him, for being such helping hand to me and many others
like us. and today when i join service, am again saying...